God is not only loving, patient and caring, He is also Holy/Righteous and hates sin (all sins) period.
Please know that there is no such thing as a big or little sin to God. Sin is still sin no matter if the world/society calls it acceptable or not.
God is a God of order and not the author of confusion.
God chastise/corrects those He loves and is a jealous God.
What I think has happened is that the fear of God's authority is little to none both in the church and world. Almost similar to how children no longer fear their parents or anyone in authority.
The wrath of God is real. There is going to come a time, before the rapture, where God is going to do a major overhaul - clean house.
Everything done in the dark will be brought to the light. What is hidden will be exposed. What has been exalted against the Will, the Way and the Word of God WILL be cast down.
Don't let it be you. Stop playing with God and get your house in order before it is too late.
2 Chronicles 7:14-15